squeee the lemon...make it as lemon juice.suck it all.Allah is forever wit you.

Monday, July 3, 2017

Insecurity

Life has been moving fast
Really fast
There were times I couldn't catch up
But somehow I have to hold on tight

Raya was great...but not everything was pleasant when I'm at my age and still single.

I honestly have fun doing what I'm doing...studying and learning new stuff.Not that marriage is not in the list but really, I would love to take it as it will be there when the right time and the right person according to His plan appear.

But,expressing this to many will shove me off to the corner...'masyaAllah' sister...why are you having such thought.

Marriage should be your biggest concern.*facepalm*

I know...I know.But I shouldn't rant my problems to the rest of the world to know...nor do I want them to know.

Sometimes talking to human is very tiring too.I'll have a special post for this one.

Being single in the society has been linked to negative personalities...the reasons why guys rejected you are the reasons for you being single up to the very moment.

Smirk.

Even a few told me off.I rather change myself..open up for guys and be more 'approachable'.In what manner...let just leave it there.

I've seen many.

Married and divorced.
Happy and suffered.
Kids are loved and many are neglected.

The riots of everyone should get married...and the latter is to produce babies without actually realizing their responsibilities as husband and wife...or father and mother have shattered the society.

Just come to my school and stay for half an hour in the class.

Before you burst and curse the kids...stop and think.Their behaviours are the product of training by the adult a.k.a parents and surrounding.

You.Us.Ruined them.

For those planning to get married.
Get your acts right.

May the new beginning sets for better future for the generation.

Hidup ada tanggungjawab.

Married or single.

Human or robot.

Everything is created for a purpose.

Ain't they?

Saturday, May 13, 2017

Solace

It has been a while
To make an excuse not to write anything here because of my busy schedule seems like just an invalid excuse I will use for countless times in the future

Approaching this age, often the conversation made among the single ladies would be on 'We have got to get a life'...and this is what people of middle age would start concerning most of the time.

When fame or people recognition became less significant for them.

When they start to be true to themselves.

Living our life for a purpose, and to have this sense of purpose we need to clarify what is meaningful to us.

That.

Living with authenticity, self-mastery, relationships, growth and meaning.

Authenticity is when you can be honest with first, yourself before others.

"By aligning your outer behaviour with your inner truth, life will flow in a direction that is meaningful to you. You will not spend energy on denial, survival, or suppression, but you will gain energy from insight, evolution, and expression...from being authentic...the pieces all seem to fit,everything clicks."

Self-mastery...being responsible and competent.

A pluspoint yet most of the independent ladies out there have been struggling with. For high self-esteem and inner peace we must know at our core that we are 'enough' just the way we are...and all by ourselves.Ones should be able to understand that crisis is unavoidable but what is more important is how do they respond to it, and that makes a major difference between people with self-mastery and those without them.

Most of my single-independent girlfriends are capable of surviving on their own, to the point others condemned us for being too independent and scared the guys out of their wits. Although people with a strong-sense of self mastery appeared to prefer handling things on their own and do things their way. That doesn't mean they want to be alone, but rather they are not afraid to be alone.

Absurd in the rational thinking of mine, I would have preferred an independent woman knowing that they have the ability to manage a family not everyone is capable for.

Oh well, that still cannot explain the complexity of man's simple minded kononnya.

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Anyways, saying these two out of five aspects because I think I need to first, work on living authentically. I should stop looking at all possible consequences of my actions because taking into consideration everyone's reaction is not something that I could handle and it worn me out.

I have come to realize that by living authentically, I should have a clear sense of purpose for my actions and being responsible for the action made by willing to accept all consequences afterwards. There is no way I could get positive feedback for everything, hence accepting them would be more realistic and help me grow as a person.

Till next time.

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